EVOLVE is a program designed to help men/women learn alternatives to family violence.
The mission of Evolve is to provide a program in which men and women examine their violent tendencies and learn alternate, non-abusive ways of expressing their anger and frustration.
Each group is led by a male and female facilitator committed to helping men/women resolve this difficult issue which often destroys their home life. The leaders are supportive and knowledgeable and help create a safe place for men/women to talk with each other.
EVOLVE Teaches Men/Women with a Problem of Violence:
• To show feelings and express fears other than through anger.
• To feel that it’s okay to ask for help.
• To ask for what he/she wants without becoming violent.
• To seek new ways of thinking and relating to others.
• To reject stereotypes of how a man/woman is “supposed” to be.
• To express frustration, disappointment, and anxiety without becoming violent.
• To take responsibility for his/her actions.
• To show his/her strength by choosing NOT to hit those closest to him/her.
Where is Evolve Held?
There are currently eight EVOLVE groups held weekly: seven are held in Kingston, of which one is for women, a second is for Spanish speakers, and the remaining five are for male English speakers. The remaining group is held in Ellenville. Five evening groups meet at Family’s Administrative Office, one late afternoon and one evening group meets at the Department of Social Services, and one evening group meets in Ellenville.
Program Hours: Groups are run on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday evenings, and Thursday afternoon and evening; administration available Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4:30pm.
How to Become an Evolve Member
There are several ways a man/woman can join the EVOLVE program:
• He/she can volunteer.
• A judge can mandate a defendant.
• A community agency can refer a client.
• EVOLVE can be part of a probation, parole or Child Protective Services disposition.
How to Sign Up
To participate in EVOLVE groups, the applicant involved must call Family himself/herself at 845.331.7080, ext. 124 and speak to Khadijah Ward. No one will be admitted to EVOLVE prior to a personal intake, which will take place at 39 John Street in Kingston or 221 Canal Street in Ellenville.
A judge, probation or parole officer, or CPS worker in Ulster County can mandate a defendant into EVOLVE by sending a referral form to Khadijah Ward, c/o Family of Woodstock, Inc., POB 3516, Kingston, NY 12402.
“Although I was reserved in my judgment at first, I came to respect and appreciate both the structure and approach of the program which ultimately deals with certain life skills and specific social issues in a gentle, but effective way.”
~~ An Evolve participant ~~
“I lost my family because of my behavior. Being in the EVOLVE program has given me a chance to now have a healthy, happier life”.
~~ An Evolve participant ~~